What happened to the days when you liked somebody and you went out and decided, I want to be with this person? I think that I am an intelligent young man willing to be a good man for a good woman. But I find myself in situations where I am always making mistakes in the eyes of women. Let me explain....
The women that I have been running into seem to expect something that they will never find.. a perfect man. There is no such thing. If you are a women, your biggest hope is that he is faith full and committed to you. But I have been that guy, but yet I feel burned and 1 step behind. Let me explain.....
I went out with this girl for awhile and when I first met her she was anti family and not interested in marriage. But as the years went by I continued to remain faith full, but she on the other hand became flirty with every "tom, dick and harry". There where secret text messages, late nights and of course the obligatory "he is just a friend. The ultimate insult is to find out that your girl has " made an oops with a guy" not once, not twice, not three times, but many times.,,, and she doesn't tell you. Oh but wait, "we were not together", I guess I missed the memo, cause I thought we where working things out. After all that, I still forgive, take her back. In her time of need when family or no one else would defend her, I did. But that meant nothing cause she dumped me on that common technicality that a lot of women use....."he was not ready for a commitment".... WHAT? Who cheated on who?
This was years ago, but the fairer sex has not changed. I want to spend time with a girl that I have known for a while, but she takes a trip with another guy for a week on some Caribbean Island and oh by the way, they are just "friends", nothing happening.
WHAT? I must have stupid on my forehead. I give her the "guys only want one thing" message and she says no it's not like that. I say ok, hey I have been dating too no problem. She comes back and no mention of the trip and she is tight lipped about the events. I still like her though, not in a "lets do it a couple of times way", but in a "I might want to settle down with you way". So I say I am coming over to see you in your neck of the woods and you are pissed about the fact that I am buying my ticket last minute. WTF?
At this point I am better suited just chasing the hootchies instead of these high end divas. They say they want a Prince, but they really want a rogue. You know what, I will be that rogue.
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